How to read Laozi easily? There is a simple code to understand it. The answer is femininity. At the first time, Femininity is not familiar in Korean society. Sometimes, it was understood as submissiveness or radical social movement. Now, however, femininity became an important conception as one section of philosophy. Confucianism represents patriarchism while Taoism emphasizes feminism. We could say Laozi was the earliest feminist in the world. Though Laozi's tender feminism is not like modern tough feminism, it contributes to the variation of ancient thought. Unfortunately, modern thinkers merely discovered anarchism in Laozi instead of feminism. Laozi does not agree with nationalism including the totalitarian defensive mechanism. Feminismis almost against nationalism which suppresses woman rights to stress patriotism. For example, fraternité in French revolution was not philanthropy, but it was just for man. Laozi could accept deconstructivism which is against western phallicism in white mythology representing women asanti-truth, outsiders, and byproducts. Laozi's femininity restored philosophy to the equal state for male/female, Europe/Asia,foreign/domestic language, knowledge/action, and others/self. This world needs feminine philosophylike Taoism which is alternating Confucianism. We are all the sons of mother.